Somebody asked me about how to get tourist visa for the US, and what are the requirements. Her US citizen boyfriend wants to sponsor her to come to the country next year on her birthday and spend time together. I understand them, but something rings a bell in my ears. I assumed the guy is not very familiar with immigration processes hence the suggestion. They have not met in person yet, that is why for me is it preferable for the guy to come first to the gal’s country and met her and her family out of respect, since they are planning to get married in two years. And besides, it is easier that way if he will be the one to go and then they process a fiancée visa or a spousal if they decide to get married there. Why I say this is because with the tight process of obtaining a tourist visa to the US and by the woman’s status in her early thirties with ordinary job, it is almost hopeless. Of course I would like for them to be together, but if the guy realize their plan’s outcome, he would find a way advantageous to both of them, even if he is schooling. There is always a way, as they say, love will find its way around the world.

What do you think or suggest?
Quoting from the United States visa site:

Hosting Visitors to the U.S.

People often ask how they can help a family member, relative or friend get a visa to visit them in the United States. We appreciate their desire to help and do understand that sometimes the need for a visit can be urgent.

Under U.S. law, however, applicants for visitor visas must qualify on their own for visas to visit the United States.

This is what applicants must do to qualify for visitor visas

• Complete and sign the required application forms;
• Bring evidence that their visit is temporary and that they will return home after their legally authorized stay; and
• Undergo security clearance procedures

We understand that you may want to help with the visa process. However, it does not help the applicant if you write a letter of invitation or personally guarantee his or her departure from the United States after the visit is over. The consular officer evaluates each visa application on its own merits according to visa law and procedures. You can be most helpful by making sure the applicant has all the information they need to submit a correct application and by explaining fully the standards for visa issuance.